Shattering Excuses

For the women looking to take their power back.

When we get nervous it is easy to make excuses. We make excuses about why we aren’t nurturing ourselves, or taking time for ourselves.

I get it.. sometimes life just gets really busy. You may always have someone else to take care of. Maybe work is really crazy, or you are constantly driving someone somewhere. It is easy to put yourself on the back burner.

We also make excuses like “I want to loose 15 lbs first!” and “I just don’t have the money right now!.” I wanted to write this to show you that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it!

Here is some of my top objections I hear from women about doing a boudoir session.

“I don’t have enough time for myself”

It is so important to remember if you aren’t taking time to care for yourself mentally. If you are letting your cup empty completely. It is going to be so much harder to show up for everyone else. I actually really struggle with this myself, which is one of the reasons that I am sharing this with you. I often need to remind myself to “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breathe.”

At your boudoir session you are able to have that down time where no one needs you. You can spend a few hours just loving on yourself.

You need to slow down and take those breaks, why not schedule it into a day spent pampering you?

“I won’t look like everyone else, I want to reach my weight goals first”

Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the idea body is possessed naturally by only 5% of of American Females? Only FIVE PERCENT.

I will say this over and over again (and sorry if you’ve heard me say it before), but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit society’s messed up idea of the perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two bodies are the same.

I think it’s amazing to have goals and want to get healthy, but that doesn’t mean you have to hate your body in the meantime. Scheduling a boudoir session now is a great way to set a goal for yourself, and also a great way to fall in love with yourself right here, right now. Be proud of where you are, so you can be proud of where you are going.

“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”

WRONG.

This excuse is the EXACT reason that you SHOULD do a boudoir session.

Often times we loose touch with our femininity and sexuality when life gets overwhelming.

Work, Kids, Stress, you name it. It happens a lot and it is totally normal and okay if you are also experiencing this. A great way to step into that side of ourselves again is to experience a boudoir session, and have that safe space to tap into those emotions.

Another thing to remember is that you don’t have to wear super sexy or provocative clothing. If you want to stick to a more modest attire, that is absolutely normal and welcomed as well. If you need more ideas I would be happy to help you!

“A boudoir session is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.”

Yes a boudoir session IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your confidence, you are capturing your youth, you are rewriting your story.

We do offer SEVERAL payment plan options, And allowing booking 12 months in advance. If you have any questions about payment plans, feel free to reach out and I would be happy to help create a custom plan for you!